By doing these things we have created our own flock of scammers right here in America. Many American men (including myself) will complain that Ukraine women have heads like cash registers but they never think that we are the ones that created this.
Now that the “Cold War” has come to and end and we are learning that Russian people (especially women) are nothing like we were lead to believe we are finding out that the unspoiled Russian women (no scam) are like a breath of fresh air next the money hungry American women that we have created. Well guess what, we are now doing this to the Russian women. Take a look at the men that are bragging about all they have. I had one man want to send a girl a picture of his sailboat rather that a picture of himself. He said: “I got to show her what I have”. These girls are learning fast and now we have more and more that are only looking for money. I am writing this because this American men and Russian women is a great idea but we need to show the Russian girls for marriage what great men we are. Not what we have. If a man is looking for a wife in Russia we must do the following:
Start off being honest with both the girls and ourselves about why you want a Russian bride. If you want a woman that will be impressed with you because you have money, nice cars, a big home, etc. - don’t waste your time and money on a Russian bride. Stick to American women because the only woman that you will impress will think like the women here. I have never been one to go for using things like money to impress woman. I have never felt like I needed to because I am a nice guy. I am the type that will help my wife with the homework or do nice things for her. In my marriage I never cheated on my wife. The problem with that is American women have been trained to think that men are there to use so they will use a man like that. Russian women have not been trained to think that way so they will not use you. They will be happy to find a man that appreciates them and helps them around the house.
On a closing note I wanted to add that any man that sends money to a girl he meets on the Internet before they meet fact to fact deserves to get scammed - but I would like for men to think about what they are doing because this is the last hope for many men to meet a wife that will want a strong family.
